[Morgan nods, pointing his spoon at her for emphasis.]

And that's because you don't know what you want. You're trying to attain a goal that you literally can't attain. It's like you're playing basketball without a hoop! It's not because you're flawed or a failure, you just feel that way because you don't know what actually counts as success.

[Again, straight from the heart, and from his own experience. Morgan knows exactly what that's like. Lived it a long time.]